Monthly Archives: January 2024

January 31, 2024 · 5:36 AM

Leaving Crisis Mode

Stephen Covey says we typically spend our time in one of four quadrants, and the amount of time we spend in each matters to our growth and productivity. Quadrant 1 is where most people live. It’s urgent and important things. The problem with quadrant one is that we’re on a treadmill not going anywhere really. We’re just constantly putting out fires. Quadrant two is not urgent but important. Here is where we focus on the future, relationships and planning. Being in this quadrant brings growth, control and balance. The other two quadrants are urgent and not important (quadrant three) and not urgent and not important. These aren’t connected to your big picture goals and prevent you from doing what really matters. The more time we spend in quadrant two, the more fulfilled our life will be is his point.

David was a man living in crisis before he became king. Saul was constantly hunting him to kill him. He spent a lot of his time in the wilderness of the Negev. It’s a very dry climate there where there isn’t much water and the biggest body of water is undrinkable (Dead Sea). David could have spent all his time during this season in quadrant one handling all the urgent and important work of trying to find water, food, shelter and safety. He had to do those things, but David took time to live in quadrant two in the middle of all that. He focused on the future and on the One who could rescue him. He grew his relationship with God in the difficult times. He knew he didn’t just need a series of temporary solutions. He needed to know the One who could solve his problems and fulfill the anointing on his life. During this time, he wrote Psalm 63.

Psalm 63:1 says, ”O God, you are my God; I earnestly search for you. My soul thirsts for you; my whole body longs for you in this parched and weary land where there is no water“ (NLT). Where do you spend your time when things aren’t going according to plan in your life? Do you jump on the treadmill in quadrant one or do you build your relationship with God who is more than able to help? Do you search for Him in your wilderness or for the solutions by yourself? If you find yourself spending all your time in response and survival mode, it will be hard to break free from the cycle. While you still have to spend time on those things because they’re urgent and important, make time to search for God, to seek His face and to study His Word. He is the One who gives peace, deliverance and wisdom. When we draw close to Him, He draws close to us.

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January 30, 2024 · 5:37 AM

An Agent Of Peace

I had a boss once who about five minutes before I opened my store walked onto my showroom floor and got mad about something. He was saying one word at a time rhythmically as he threw each item. Meanwhile my staff froze and a line of customers watched through the glass doors. As I began to quickly pick up the items, he asked what I was doing. I had to clean up before I opened. When he apologized a couple of hours later, I told him he was like a nuclear bomb. He comes in, explodes and leaves a huge mess that I’m forced to clean up while simultaneously trying to repair relationships he’s actively destroying. I learned how to bring peace as a boss while working for him rather than chaos.

In 1 Samuel 25 there was a very rich man named Nabal. David had heard that he was shearing his sheep and knew he’d be giving a feast soon. He sent ten men to greet Nabal in his name and to remind him how David’s small army protected his shepherds and livestock. The men were then to request some food. Nabal quickly got angry at the men. He said, “Who is David? Why should I give men I don’t know my food?” David got angry and got together a group to go to Nabal to kill him. When Nabal’s wife heard what happened, she quickly loaded animals with food and went to meet David. She apologized for her husband’s behavior and her peaceful approach convinced David not to kill everyone in their camp. David thanked God and her for keeping him from killing everyone.

Proverbs 15:18 says, “A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, But he who is slow to anger and patient calms disputes” (AMP). What affect do you have on people when you walk in the room? Do your actions cause strife and tension or do they calm others? Nabal and David were quick to anger and caused strife in the story above. Thankfully Abigail was patient and used wisdom to bring peace and calm. Your voice, your demeanor and tone all have an affect on those around you, especially when things are stressful and tense. A calm word of wisdom in the midst of chaos can bring people back to their senses and diffuse even the most stressful and tense situations. Be mindful of your words and actions today. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you be an agent of peace who calms disputes.

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January 29, 2024 · 5:36 AM

The Rough Road

One of the things I hear a lot of people say when they go through a tough time is that they must not be in God’s will. God’s path for our lives isn’t always the easy one. Tough times doesn’t mean you have angered God or turned His wrath toward you. There are times He takes us through the sunless valley of the shadow of death. There are times when the road He takes you down is in the wilderness where you feel like you can’t feel Him or through waters that are too deep and it feels like you’re drowning. If He always took you through green pastures, your faith would never grow. The rough roads are where we learn to trust Him even when we can’t feel Him.

In the book of Exodus, God displays His mighty power for both the Egyptians and Israelites to see. He then set them free from their captor and immediately led them into the desert. Not long after, they felt cornered at the Red Sea with Pharaoh’s army pinning them down. Were they out of God’s will? No. God protected them from the army and then parted the water. The road then

led them through the wilderness where they experienced hunger and thirst. Even though they experienced hardship, they were still in His will and on His path. Remember, He provided manna there, brought water from the rock, led them with a cloud by day and a fire by night. Their clothes and shoes also never wore out. In the wilderness, God was still providing for them as He led them to the Promised Land.

Psalm 77:19 says, ”Your way was through the sea, your path through the great waters; yet your footprints were unseen“ (ESV). God’s way is always the best way, but it’s not always the easy way or the quickest. He cares more about your growth than your comfort. When we go through deep waters where we can’t see His footprints to lead us, it causes our roots to grow deeper in Him. It causes us to spend more time in prayer and our faith finds a new level. The times in our lives when we draw closest to God are usually times where we feel like we’re going under and can’t breathe. You are not necessarily off His path or out of His will when you experience these things. Don’t look for blame in these moments. Instead, look for His presence. He is there leading you, guarding you and providing for you when the road gets rough. Your Promised Land is just ahead.

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January 26, 2024 · 4:52 AM

Biblical Advice

I’ve received a lot of great advice in my life, but I’ve also received a lot of bad advice (and followed it). Over time I’ve learned who to trust and who not to. I’ve learned to tell what is godly, Biblical advice and what is someone’s opinion. Proverbs 19:20 says, “If you listen to advice and are willing to learn, one day you will be wise” (GNT). I don’t count myself as “wise” yet, but I’m willing to listen to people and to learn. I’ve also learned that it’s important to seek out advice from people I trust when I’m not sure what to do. I then prayerfully consider it and weigh it against Scripture. Once I go through it and apply the advice, I become more wise to handle it in the future so I can help others.

Here are some examples of Biblical advice I love.

1. Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people.

Colossians 3:23 NLT

2. Be kind and helpful to one another, tender-hearted [compassionate, understanding], forgiving one another [readily and freely], just as God in Christ also forgave you.

Ephesians 4:32 AMP

3. Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts.

Proverbs 4:23 GNT

4. Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.

Romans 12:12-13 ESV

5. Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.

Philippians 2:3 NLT

What a piece of godly or Biblical advice you’ve received that helped you?

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January 25, 2024 · 5:30 AM

Holy, Flawless And Restored

We are own worst critics. Like me, you can probably point to everything that’s wrong with you.we know our own faults and failures. We know why God should never use us. To demonstrate this, I used to do a lesson with a group of teenagers I taught at church. I would take a piece of plain white paper, scribble in the middle of it and ask what they saw. Like clockwork, they treated it like a blob test. They called out everything under the sun of what they thought they saw. I then asked why no one said, “A paper,” or “A lot of unused space.” We tend to focus on the mess ups instead of the whole, then we disqualify ourselves. In fact, you probably just thought, “But you don’t know how bad I’ve messed up.” You’re right, I don’t, but then again, it doesn’t matter when it’s been forgiven.

When I read the Bible, I love to look at the heroes of faith. There are many people I’ve idolized in the Bible and wished I was more like them. I wish I had the same heart as David, and his courage too. I wish I had the boldness of Paul along with his tenacity. I look at Peter and wonder if I would have had the faith to get out of the boat. On and on it goes, but when I really examine their lives, I find that the heroes of the faith have messed up more than I ever have so far. David committed adultery and killed his lover’s husband to cover it up, yet God still kept him on the throne and used him. Paul spent a lifetime killing Christians before he became one. Jesus once called Peter, “Satan” because of his attitude. We can point to major flaws as we look at all these great leaders. If they weren’t disqualified, then neither are we.

The reason is that when God looks at us, He doesn’t see our past sins like we do. Instead, He sees His Son. Colossians 1:22 says, “And now there is nothing between you and Father God, for he sees you as holy, flawless, and restored” (TPT). When God has forgiven you, He restores you. He makes you holy even though you don’t feel holy. In His eyes, you are flawless because you are covered by the righteousness of His Son. There is no sin you’ve ever committed that is stronger than His blood, so there is nothing you have done that will ever make Him see you as holy, flawless and restored. It’s time we began to change the focus of how we see ourselves so that we begin to see what God sees when we look in the mirror. Look at yourself and say, “Through Jesus, I am holy, flawless and restored.” Say it over and over until you believe it because God already does.

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Throwback Thursday is a feature I’m using to help build some margin into my schedule to pursue other ventures. Each Thursday I’ll be bringing you a previously written devotional that still speaks encouragement to us from God’s Word.

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January 24, 2024 · 5:39 AM

Receiving Strength

How do you react to stress? Are you the type who breaks down and bites everyone’s head off? Does it make you quiet or cause you to break down? We all react to stressful situations differently. What do you do when you look at everything and the odds are against you? Some people shut down while others rise to the challenge. Some look at the situation and feel fearful while others experience peace. When we’re in those situations, especially ones where we’re doing what God called us to, we can face them with courage and the strength that God gives. Fear comes from thinking we have to do it all in our own strength.

In Joshua 1, Moses had died and the mantle of his leadership over these millions of people fell to him. He was tasked with leading them into the Promised Land and fighting the people who lived there. It must have felt overwhelming to him to think of all he had to do and what he was responsible for. He had seen the giants and the walled cities, but he also saw the goodness the land would provide. He was one of two who trusted God to give them the land under the leadership of Moses. Now it was his responsibility to lead. That’s when God met him and reassured him that He would be with him just as He was with Moses. Then in verse 9 He said, “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not be terrified or dismayed (intimidated), for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go” (AMP).

In John 14, Jesus was passing the mantle of leadership to the disciples just before His crucifixion. He could sense their stress, fear and hesitation. In verse 27 He told them, “Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be afraid. [Let My perfect peace calm you in every circumstance and give you courage and strength for every challenge.]” Whatever you’re facing, you don’t have to do it in your own strength or courage. God gives peace as we face insurmountable odds. He also gives us grace, strength and courage to stand in those moments. He will give you what you need in those moments, but you have to be willing to cross the river, walk up to the walled cities in front of you and face the giants. Receive His peace, strength and courage today.

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January 23, 2024 · 5:51 AM

Desperately Seeking

A few years ago my wife and I were visiting San Antonio. One night we were walking down the River Walk looking at shops when we spotted a young girl around 5 years old. She was standing there crying as people walked by. We approached her and asked if she was lost. She said she was as we tried to calm her down. My wife told me to stand on something so I could watch the crowd. She knew there would be some desperate parents soon. Sure enough I saw them frantically looking through the crowd. I motioned at them and the fear turned into relief as they got to us and found their daughter. They were desperately seeking her once they realized she had gotten separated from them.

There’s a Greek word used in the New Testament for the kind of seeking those parents were doing. It’s Zeteo. This word was used when Jesus’ parents lost Him at 12 years old and had to travel back to Jerusalem to find Him (Luke 2:45). When Jesus told the story of the lost sheep and the shepherd left the 99, He used this word to describe the shepherd looking for his sheep ((Matthew 18:12). This word was used for Judas as he sought an opportunity to betray Jesus (Matthew 26:16). He was looking for the right opportunity to have Jesus handed over to be crucified. The word we have in English just says to seek, but the word used means you stop everything and make it your number one priority because you’re desperate.

Jesus used this same word in Matthew 7:7-8 when He said, “Ask and keep on asking and it will be given to you; seek and keep on seeking and you will find; knock and keep on knocking and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who keeps on asking receives, and he who keeps on seeking finds, and to him who keeps on knocking, it will be opened” (AMP). I don’t know what you’re seeking today, a healing, a job, a touch from God. Whatever it might be, desperately keep on asking God for it. Desperately seek Him for your answer like nothing else matters, and desperately knock on Heaven’s door until you receive your answer, find what you’re asking God for and the door of Heaven opens up to grant your request. Desperately seek God for it the way a parent would for their lost child. Don’t stop until you have what you need.

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January 22, 2024 · 5:30 AM

Healing Words

A flight attendant once told me that every day she keeps in mind that every passenger has a story. Each passenger is traveling in response to something like a need for a vacation, work request, to see family or friends. Some are happy to be traveling and others are sad. No matter what, each person has been hurt in their past and is in need of kindness. Knowing this helped her to give grace to the hundreds of people she came in contact with each day. She also felt like it was her duty to bring some joy into their life no matter why they were traveling. Her wisdom changed my perspective. I began to think of the people I see throughout my day and how many hidden hurts and struggles they could be going through. The words I say to them in our interaction could bring hurt or healing.

In 1 Samuel 1 we read the story of Elkanah and his two wives, Peninnah and Hannah. Hannah wasn’t able to have kids and Peninnah was. In that time period, infertility was looked at as a punishment from God. Rather than feel,sorry for her, Peninnah treated Hannah poorly. Verse 7 says, “Year after year it was the same—Peninnah would taunt Hannah as they went to the Tabernacle. Each time, Hannah would be reduced to tears and would not even eat” (NLT). Her husband’s words weren’t much better towards her either. However, in bitter weeping before the Lord, the healing words from the priest told her she would have her request granted by God. She began to eat and had a son named Samuel not long after.

Proverbs 12:18 says, “Reckless words are like the thrusts of a sword, cutting remarks meant to stab and to hurt. But the words of the wise soothe and heal” (TPT). Do the words you speak to those closest to you stab and hurt them or bring healing and relief? What about the passengers of life that you come in contact with? You never know how much the words you say to someone can change the trajectory of their day or life. You have the power of life and death in the words you choose to use each day. Choose words that soothe and heal. Choose to show someone they are loved by the Word, as John referred to Jesus, that gives eternal life. You can bring healing to the wounds that were left by the words of someone else.

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January 19, 2024 · 5:26 AM

The House Of The Lord

Your home should be a place where you find peace, protection and comfort. It’s the place we long for when we’ve been gone to long. It’s where we gather with friends and family. It’s where we feel most at ease and where we can be ourselves. It’s no wonder King David didn’t just long for his home, but the house of the Lord. That was the place of refuge from all the war he endured. It’s where he could just sit in God’s presence and be honest with God. It’s no wonder he wrote about the house of the Lord so much. There are blessings there for us as believers. There is growth, healing and hope for us in His house. If your house isn’t what it should be for you, there is a place of rest, protection and hope for you in His house. Whether it’s in your church or in your eternal home that Jesus is building, you have a place in the house of the Lord.

Here are some Bible verses on the house of the Lord.

1. Blessed and greatly favored are those who dwell in Your house and Your presence; They will be singing Your praises all the day long. Selah.

Psalms 84:4 AMP

2. But I know that you will welcome me into your house, for I am covered by your covenant of mercy and love. So I come to your sanctuary with deepest awe to bow in worship and adore you.

Psalms 5:7 TPT

3. But the godly will flourish like palm trees and grow strong like the cedars of Lebanon. For they are transplanted to the Lord’s own house. They flourish in the courts of our God.

Psalms 92:12-13 NLT

4. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

Psalm 23:6 ESV

5. One thing I have asked of the Lord, and that I will seek: That I may dwell in the house of the Lord [in His presence] all the days of my life, To gaze upon the beauty [the delightful loveliness and majestic grandeur] of the Lord And to meditate in His temple.

Psalms 27:4 AMP

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January 18, 2024 · 5:30 AM

Dreaming Too Small

In 2019, I had the opportunity to spend the weekend with some high capacity, driven men. We spent the weekend praying, dreaming, discussing and planning what God wanted to do through us as individuals in our families, churches, communities and businesses. After we would write down what we felt like we wanted to do in any of those areas, we would come together in small groups to discuss the direction and goal. It wasn’t uncommon for someone to mention a goal to their group and then be challenged about it. Someone might say, “Do you think that’s a big enough goal?” It wasn’t ever done out of spite. It was done to challenge us to see if we were limiting God in what He was dreaming for our lives.

I’m a firm believer that God has dreams, goals and plans for each of our lives. If only we had eyes to see what He sees in us. Too many times our vision or goals are minuscule in comparison to what He wants to do through us. We limit ourselves because we focus on our weaknesses and roadblocks. Those things in our lives are not meant to hold us back, but rather to get us to trust in God and His all sufficient grace. A life of faith is not about what we can accomplish on our own, but rather what can God accomplish through us as a willing vessel. If we could do it on our own, we wouldn’t need faith, and most of what God wants to do through each one of us requires faith.

So what is it you’re asking God to do for you or through you? Is that too small? Think of Ephesians 3:20 which says, “Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think” (NLT). God is able to do infinitely more through you than you can even ask or think! Any of the dreams or goals we set are small by those standards. One of the prayers I’ve started praying is, “God plant your goals and dreams in me, then help me to reach the potential you see in my life. Help me to accomplish the goals and dreams you have for my life.” If what He wants to do through me is infinitely greater, then I’ll willingly give up my dreams for His so I can live a life of purpose that completes His objectives for my life. Have you been limiting what God could do through you by dreaming too small?

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Throwback Thursday is a feature I’m using to help build some margin into my schedule to pursue other ventures. Each Thursday I’ll be bringing you a previously written devotional that still speaks encouragement to us from God’s Word.

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