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Controlling Everything

How do you handle it when everything is going wrong? There are times and seasons of disappointment that we all go through. For some of us, we start trying to control everything when things start spinning out of control. The truth is that we can’t really control anything except our response and our attitude. I’m not a person that is constantly worried about things, but in these seasons, worry tries to creep in. My sleep gets disrupted, my appetite goes away and I get quiet because I’m trying to handle it and solve it on my own. Doing all those things is still simply masking the fact that I’m trying to control the situation rather than my response. Ultimately I have to realize that only God can control my circumstances.

In Esther 3, Haman had been promoted to second in command. The king ordered that he be given the same treatment and respect as if he were king. People were told to bow when he went by them. Everyone obeyed the edict except Mordecai. Haman was infuriated and decided not to simply attack Mordecai. His response was to eradicate all Jews. He convinced the king to sign a law that gave people in every province of the kingdom to kill Jews and take their possessions. In chapter four, Mordecai read the decree and began crying and wailing. He put on mourning clothes, fasted and prayed for a resolution. He may have felt the blame for the situation and knew he didn’t have the answer, but he knew God did. He sent word to Esther about what was going on and God used her to save His people.

Psalm 121:1-2 says, “I look up to the mountains— does my help come from there? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth!” (NLT) When things are out of control, God is still in control. We must look to Him because He is the only one who can help in these seasons. He is the one who had the plan and people in position to protect you and bring the season to a close. Like Mordecai, we should turn our hearts toward heaven in fasting and prayer. Like Esther, we should be ready to do whatever God asks no matter how difficult. Things may look bleak, and times may get rough, but in those moments we must look to God and seek Him more than ever. He is still in control of everything and nothing happens without Him knowing. Control your response and let Him take the burden of controlling everything else.

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Choosing Words

Studies show that an adult person speaks 7,000 – 20,000 words a day. That’s 2,555,000 to 7,300,000 words a year, and between 158,410,000 to 452,600,000 in your adult life. That’s a lot of words we speak. How many of those are careless versus carefully chosen? Our words carry weight with the people who hear them. Someone will hear something you say and it will stay in their mind for the rest of their life. Beyond that, your words will echo for eternity because one day we will be judged by what we have said. When we put those millions of words we say into perspective, it reminds us to be more careful in what and how we say things. There’s a lot more riding on them than you think. Once they’re spoken, you can never recapture them.

Here are some Bible verses on choosing words:

1. Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it and indulge it will eat its fruit and bear the consequences of their words.

Proverbs 18:21 AMP

2. Reckless words are like the thrusts of a sword, cutting remarks meant to stab and to hurt. But the words of the wise soothe and heal.

Proverbs 12:18 TPT

3. Be careful what you say and protect your life. A careless talker destroys himself.

Proverbs 13:3 GNT

4. When you speak healing words, you offer others fruit from the tree of life. But unhealthy, negative words do nothing but crush their hopes.

Proverbs 15:4 TPT

5. I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.

Matthew 12:36-37 ESV

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Honoring God’s Presence

I take a spiritual growth assessment a couple of times a year to get a snapshot of where I am. It helps me to visualize the different aspects of my disciplines, see where I’m gaining ground and where I’m losing ground. I’ve noticed when certain disciplines, like listening in my prayer time, are low, there are fewer experiences with God. There’s a direct correlation between my listening to His voice and experiencing His power and presence in my life. If I want more of it, I have to make time to listen instead of just talking through that time to Him about my needs. Listening is a great way to honor God’s presence.

In 1 Samuel 3, Eli was the High Priest of Israel. He was their spiritual leader, but the first verse says, “Now in those days messages from the Lord were very rare, and visions were quite uncommon” (NLT). The reason why the messages and visions were rare is because Eli had quit honoring God’s presence. He no longer slept in the tabernacle tending to the candlestick, he allowed his sons to steal God’s offerings and turned a blind eye to their promiscuity. God had enough of it and spoke to Samuel a prophetic message of how He was going to remove Eli and his sons from their positions.

In Matthew 13:57-58 it says, “Then Jesus told them, ‘A prophet is honored everywhere except in his own hometown and among his own family.’ And so he did only a few miracles there because of their unbelief.” Our belief and honor have a lot to do with how much we experience the power of God in our life. If it’s been a while since you’ve heard God’s voice or experienced Him in a real way, take a close examination of your life. Are you honoring Him in all aspects of your life? Have you been relaxed on your spiritual disciplines? When we honor God, He shows up in our life in real ways.

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Leaving The Pit Of Despair

September 25th holds a special place in my heart and on my calendar. It’s the day where I hit rock bottom in my life. After seven months of having the bottom fall out from underneath me, this was the day I gave up. I walked into my house, laid down on the living room floor, curled up in the fetal position and bawled like a baby. I was hurting inside so badly and was tired of losing everything. In that moment I cried out to God and told Him I was done. It was then that I heard a still, small voice say, “Finally.” I had been doing thing on my own and living how I wanted to live. God spoke and said if I was ready to build my life His way and live how He wanted me to, He would rebuild my life. I repented right there and agreed to change. I walked over to my calendar and wrote, “The Bottom.”

In Luke 15:11-32, Jesus told a parable about another man who tried to do things his way. He went to his father and demanded his inheritance while his father was still living. He insulted his father and his whole village. He took the money, went to a foreign land and lived how he wanted instead of how he was raised. He was having a good time until he ran out of money. If that wasn’t bad enough, there was famine that caused food to be scare. Then the economy crashed and he couldn’t find work except the lowliest of positions. After struggling, he finally hit rock bottom and decided to seek forgiveness. He headed home. Verse 20 says, “So he returned home to his father. And while he was still a long way off, his father saw him coming. Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him” (NLT). His father put a new robe on him, put the family ring on his finger, killed the best calf and had a celebration. His son had returned and agreed to live by the father’s rules.

Psalm 40:2 says, “He lifted me out of the pit of despair, out of the mud and the mire. He set my feet on solid ground and steadied me as I walked along.” I’ve been to the pit of despair and cried out like the Prodigal Son. A friend recently asked for practical steps to get out of that pit. I to,d him it starts with repentance and crying out to God. It takes determining to make changes in your life and leaving situations, people and places that got you there. It takes committing to reading the Bible, praying daily and getting involved in a body of believers who will love you. When I made these changes, God lifted me out of the pit, put my feet on solid ground and steadied me as I made progress. It took more than ten years to get back to the point where I felt like I was back to level ground. It’s not easy climbing out of that pit of despair, but it’s possibly by surrendering to God.

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The Path of Obedience

Several years ago I was a general manager for a retail establishment. One of our stores had a manager who made a bad decision and destroyed the morale of the employees and split the store so the team was at odds with each other. The district manager invited several of us to apply and share our vision of how to rebuild the team and restore peace. My vision and plan won the job for me. As I was transitioning out of my previous store, their issues began to keep me busy unnecessarily. I called the assistant manager, who was running it temporarily, about the issues. In our conversation they let me know they had been a candidate for the job and they had a completing vision. I let them know they needed to choose between my vision and theirs, and if they chose theirs, they needed to move on. We had worked together before and were friends, but I couldn’t have another vision fighting against mine. They chose to leave.

In the story of Jonah, it starts off with God visiting him presenting a vision of what He wanted him to do. He wanted Jonah to go to the city of Nineveh to proclaim judgement against it unless they repented. Verse 3 says, “But Jonah ran away to Tarshish to escape from the presence of the Lord [and his duty as His prophet]” (AMP). Jonah had a competing vision for his life and ran away from the path of obedience. You know the story of how God sent a storm and the men through Jonah overboard where he was swallowed by a great fish. In the darkness, he cried out to God. In chapter 2 verse 9 he repented and said he would do what he had vowed. In that moment, he agreed to be obedient to God’s vision for his life. The fish vomited him onto the shore and he went to the city where they changed their ways.

In Philippians 2, Paul writes that we should have the same attitude and mind that Jesus had when it comes to God’s vision and plan for our lives. Verse 8 says, “He was humble and walked the path of obedience all the way to death— his death on the cross” (GNT). God’s vision and path for your life aren’t the easiest to follow. Your flesh will be at war with it because your flesh has a competing vision. Only you can decide which you will obey. You may be running away from God’s plan up to this point. The good news is that God gives us chance after chance to return to the path of obedience. We must daily take up our cross, crucify our desires and competing visions to it and be obedient to God’s plan no matter what it is. Like Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane, we must pray, “Not my will, but yours be done.” That is how we stay on the path of obedience.

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An Encouraging Testimony

When I was in high school, I read the book “Tortured For His Faith” by Haralan Popov. He was a prominent pastor in Bulgaria in the late 1940’s. Stalin had taken over his homeland and had him and several other pastors arrested. They were accused of being spies. He was tortured mercilessly for days and had brainwashing techniques used on him until he confessed to being a spy. He spent the next 13 years in prison and concentration camps being beaten and tortured for his faith. As I read his remarkable autobiography, my own faith was strengthened and challenged. How he handled himself and shared his faith in prison, while under duress, stirred up my faith and trust in God.

In Luke 22, Jesus was with the disciples eating the Passover meal before He would be arrested and tortured. In verse 31, He looked at Peter and said, “Peter, my dear friend, listen to what I’m about to tell you. Satan has obtained permission to come and sift you all like wheat and test your faith” (TPT). He knew Peter was about to deny him and go through a difficult time. As the leader of the disciples, Peter would want to return to his old life, but Jesus knew He would restore Peter and his faith. Jesus told him that after his faith was restored and returned to make it his life mission to strengthen the others. What Peter went through became a testimony that encouraged other believers throughout the known world that encouraged the faith in others. Even the story of his imprisonment and death encourages and strengthens us today to live out our faith.

In Philippians 1:14 Paul said, “And what I’m going through has actually caused many believers to become even more courageous in the Lord and to be bold and passionate to preach the Word of God, all because of my chains.” Paul didn’t let what he was going through hurt his trust in God. Instead, the trials he suffered caused other believers to become more courageous in their faith. I don’t know what you’re going through right now. Chances are that it’s not being tortured for your faith. That doesn’t minimize your suffering or your pain though. However, Jesus is interceding on your behalf right now and his prayer is that when you come through, your testimony will strengthen the faith of others. People see how you handle yourself in your most difficult moments and God uses that to grow faith in others. There is good that can come from even the darkest times of our lives. God will always work everything together for good for those who love Him. Use your testimony to strengthen and encourage others in their faith.

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Following Direction

Have you ever prayed asking God for direction? Me too. Knowing what to do or which decision to make or where to go plagues all of us. Sometimes we’re at a loss to know and other times we’ve got paralysis through analysis. Gideon was in the same boat. In Judges 6, God met with him and called him to lead Israel. In verse 36 he laid out a fleece to find out if God was really directing him in that direction. He did it again the next night just to be sure. God answered his requests and he followed where God was leading him. Because he did, God used him to set Israel free from the oppression of the Amalekites.

I don’t know if God is calling you to lead, something great or something small. However, I do know that God directs each of our steps. Whatever you’re asking directions for, He has an answer and a plan. As with anything else, you then have a choice. Are you going to follow God’s direction or are you going to choose your own? If you choose the later, take a moment to read up on Jonah. Instead, ask for wisdom in how to proceed, that God would open the right door and light up your path. God is not trying to hide his plan for you, but there are times He asks us to step out in faith. Abraham had to start walking towards something before God told him where to go. Whatever situation you find yourself in, seek God’s direction and then follow it.

Here are some Bible verses showing that God directs us:

1. What I say is this: let the Spirit direct your lives, and you will not satisfy the desires of the human nature.

Galatians 5:16 GNT

2. The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives.

Psalms 37:23 NLT

3. The holy God of Israel, the Lord who saves you, says: “I am the Lord your God, the one who wants to teach you for your own good and direct you in the way you should go.”

Isaiah 48:17 GNT

4. A man’s mind plans his way [as he journeys through life], But the Lord directs his steps and establishes them.

Proverbs 16:9 AMP

5. It is the Lord who directs your life, for each step you take is ordained by God to bring you closer to your destiny. So much of your life, then, remains a mystery!

Proverbs 20:24 TPT

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Finding Shelter

Growing up on the Gulf Coast, you’re taught what to do in case of tornados or hurricanes. When they’re approaching, the news will tell everyone to find shelter. The shelter you choose matters. Is it strong enough to withstand high winds? Is it high enough that it won’t flood? Does it have interior rooms with no windows? When a storm is bearing down on you, your safety depends on where you shelter. No matter what though, there are always those who choose to run into the storm rather than to shelter. The news will show people at the beach trying to surf in the waves or who want to wait as long as they possibly can before the full force of the storm arrives. Most people evacuate and look for shelter though.

Where do you go when the storms of life come? I’ve tried to weather them without help and have lost everything. I’ve also learned to find my shelter in God who is unmovable. When you have an emergency in the US, you dial 9-1-1 to get help. When you’re facing one of life’s storms, I recommend Psalm 91:1. It says, “He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High Will remain secure and rest in the shadow of the Almighty [whose power no enemy can withstand]” (AMP). God offers us shelter from our storms. Merriam Webster defines shelter as something that covers or affords protection. That’s what God offers us, but we must choose to run to Him in those times.

He also says we can rest in His shadow. Have you ever been in someone’s shadow literally? In order to do that, you have to be pretty close to them. God is inviting us to not just run to Him when we need protection. He’s asking us to draw near to Him and to dwell, or live, in the shelter He provides. Does that mean you won’t face storms or feel their effects? No, but it does mean you will have protection that won’t fail when you need it most. God will be your 9-1-1, but He desires for each one of us to live in His presence and to talk with Him daily. He’s not just our emergency relief. He’s our daily bread if we will choose to draw close to Him. When we do that, we can proclaim, “He is my refuge and my fortress, My God, in whom I trust [with great confidence, and on whom I rely]!” (Psalm 91:2)

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Getting Rid Of Things

I’ve spent year teaching people about personal and spiritual growth. I’ve found that our human nature wants change, but doesn’t want to change in order to achieve it. We want to de clutter our lives, but we don’t want to get rid of anything. What holds most of us back in our growth is our inability to let go of things, people habits and comforts that are holding us back. They may have a helped us in the past to get where we are, but they’re dead weight when it comes to getting us where we need to go. The people who experience growth in their lives are the ones who are able to lay things down that hold them back. I’m guilty of this myself. There’s a fear in letting go partly because what we’re holding onto is comfortable and partly because we’re afraid of the unknown. If we’re going to walk by faith, we have to be willing to let go of things.

When Jesus called Peter, James and John to follow Him, they had to lay down their nets. Those nets were their source of income and represented a lifetime of learning the skill of fishing. When David defeated Goliath with a sling and a stone, the Bible says he picked up Goliath’s sword. We don’t read of him conquering nations with a sling. He did it with what he picked up. Gideon was found by an a age as he was hiding from his enemy. In order to lead the nation, he had to lay down his insecurities and embrace the mighty warrior within himself. Moses had to lay down his fear in order to set God’s people free. He faced his past, trusted in God and stood before Pharaoh. The list goes on.

Hebrews 12:1 says, “As for us, we have this large crowd of witnesses around us. So then, let us rid ourselves of everything that gets in the way, and of the sin which holds on to us so tightly, and let us run with determination the race that lies before us” (GNT). What do you need to get rid of that is weigh in you down and holding you back? God had more for you, but you need to lay some things down in order to receive it. Getting rid of things isn’t easy, but it is necessary. Ask the Holy Spirit to identify things, habits, people and comforts in your life that are keeping you from all He had for you. Then ask for the strength, faith and courage to let go. There is freedom in getting rid of things.

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Knowing The Author

There are a few books that I’ve read that have truly impacted the trajectory of my life. After reading one of them, I decided I wanted to meet the author. He was speaking at a writer’s conference, so I bought a ticket, booked a plane, got a hotel room and went to meet him. Just as his meet and greet was to begin, he got a call that took up his whole time. I was determined, so a year or so later, I flew to the city where his church is so I could attempt again. I did finally meet him. By then I had read his book a couple of times and did life group studies with it to help change their lives too. Another person from that group and I went to another conference. There we heard a speaker who gave out his book for free to the audience. I was reading it on a flight and it impacted me to the point of tears. I searched for him, found his email and sent him a message. Five minutes later, he responded.

Books are amazing and have the power to help us. The Bible is the greatest book of them all. However, it is not greater than it’s author. In John 5, Jesus was confronted by some Jewish elders who had spent a lifetime studying the Scriptures, yet they failed to know its author. They didn’t recognize Jesus as His son either and plotted to kill Him. Jesus began telling them about the author and how He knew Him. In verse 39, Jesus said, “You search the Scriptures because you think they give you eternal life. But the Scriptures point to me!” (NLT). God’s Word is infallible and will last forever, but it is Jesus who gives eternal life. He is the One to whom they point and is the fulfillment of them.

Paul, who was also a Jewish leader, studied the Scriptures endlessly. In Philippians 3 he shared how much he studied them and how strictly he adhered to them, but failed to know the author. He said that he counted all that other stuff as valuable until he met Jesus. Then in verse 8 he wrote, “Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ.” We can spend a lifetime studying Scripture and miss the point that the author wants to meet us and know us. Jesus doesn’t just change our life, He gives us life because He is life. We should study the Bible and let it change how we live, but it’s pointless unless you get to know the Author of Life.

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