Monthly Archives: April 2025

I like to make quick, decisive decisions when I know what we’re going to do. We were having dinner with some friends one night and we discovered we had anniversaries that were close to each other. They said, we should travel somewhere and celebrate. We kicked around some ideas and dates before deciding when and where. A few minutes later, I said, “OK, here’s the flight we are going to be on and the hotel is booked too. We can share a rental car.” They we’re a bit surprised and said, “I thought we were just talking about it.” I didn’t. We had decided when and where, what was the point in waiting? A few days later they booked their flights and hotel too. We had a great time, but anytime we discuss anything, they’re quick to say that they’re not 100% or to tell me not to book yet. I just don’t like waiting around once things have been decided.

In Genesis 15, the Lord visited with Abram and told him that his reward for obedience would be great. Abram asked what good it would be since he had no children to pass it on to. He verbalized that he would have to will everything to his highest ranking servant. Then in verse 4, it says, “And the Lord brought Abram outside [his tent into the night] and said, ‘Look now toward the heavens and count the stars—if you are able to count them.’ Then He said to him, ‘So [numerous] shall your descendants be’” (AMP). Abram and the Lord made a covenant that night. In the next chapter, he told his barren wife about it. She said that God hadn’t given them children through her and he was 75 years old. So she offered her maid to him to have a child through her. Abram didn’t question it. He acted quickly and Hagar gave birth to a son. This was not God’s plan. 24 years after the encounter that night, God told Abram his wife would give him a son. His inability to wait on God’s timing and plan created problems for them. God was true to His promise though.

Psalm 37:7 says, “Be still before the Lord; wait patiently for Him and entrust yourself to Him; Do not fret (whine, agonize) because of him who prospers in his way, Because of the man who carries out wicked schemes.” Waiting is hard to do especially when you know God’s plan and promise to you. I tend to be like Abram where I try to figure out God’s plan and jump ahead in the name of obedience. However, God has His own plan and timing that each of us must wait for. When we see others prospering while we’re waiting, we get antsy. In those moments, remind yourself to be patient and to be still before the Lord without acting. Surrender to God’s plan and timing, and He will bless that. Obedience is important, but so is patience. Trust God, His plan and His timing.

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I tend to be a pretty optimistic person. Sometimes I’m overly optimistic and can’t get everything don’t that I thought I could. I’m also a person who operates in faith. I believe God for things that are out of my reach and abilities. Almost daily I pray for an impossibility to become possible. I’ve learned that it’s more important to be a person of faith than one of optimism. Faith depends on God while optimism depends on me. When my optimism is faced with reality, it can be crushing to me that I can’t do what I thought I could. When my faith faces the reality of situations, I believe and trust God to do what man can’t. Faith gives hope in the most dire situations knowing God is able.

In Numbers 13, Moses sent twelve spies into the land to see if it had everything God promised. In verses 17- 20, he told them to look at the terrain, look at the fortification of the cities, the fertility of the land and the people living there. When the spies were in the land, they saw that it was a good land. They thought of everything they could do with it. However, they saw fortified cities with giant walls and giants throughout the country. The men who had been optimistic saw that they couldn’t tear down walls nor defeat giants, so they brought back a bad report. The two who had faith knew God would show up and keep His promise. The whole congregation believed the report of the newly pessimistic over the one of faith. Everyone, but the two men of faith were kept from entering the Promised Land.

In Matthew 19:26 Jesus said, “With people [as far as it depends on them] it is impossible, but with God all things are possible” (AMP). In what areas of your life have you allowed your optimism to rule instead of your faith? When optimism is faced with giants, it flees more than it fights. As you face giants in the land of God’s promises to you, remember that it is up to God to keep His promises. A quote I’ve read that has been attributed to many people says, “Pray like it depends on God, but work like it depends on you.” Caleb and Joshua had to March around Jericho and draw swords to fight. God took care of the Great Wall around the city after their obedience. As you face your giants, ask God what is His part and what is your part. Then act on your faith, not your optimism.

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