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Known For Your Love

A lot of churches and organizations have assimilation classes. They might call it a membership class or new hire, but the goal is to assimilate that person into the larger group. I looked up the word assimilation in the encyclopedia Britannica and it says that assimilation is the process by which people from varying backgrounds and cultures are absorbed into the dominant culture. During the process the people take on the characteristics of the dominant culture. That’s interesting to me. Culture is pretty much what drives and defines a group of people whether they’re in a church, a company or country. The culture shapes ideas and actions of the people who are apart of it.

In Mark 3, Jesus was calling the 12 disciples who would follow Him throughout His ministry. Verse 17 says that when He spoke to brother James and John, He referred to them as the “Sons of Thunder”. I’ve always loved that name, but I’ve started thinking about why He would call them that. Thunder disrupts the peace. Thunder is loud and draws attention. Yet, after three years of being with Jesus, we don’t hear John ever referred to as a “Son of Thunder” anymore. He’s known as . The Beloved” or revered to as “the one Jesus loved”. When thinking about him in the context of assimilation, being around the dominant culture of Jesus (Love), John was changed as a person and became known for his love for others as Jesus said we should be known for.

In 1 John 4:7-8, he writes, “Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love” (NLT). How has God’s love changed who you are and how you treat other people? The closer you get to God, the more you experience His love. The more of His love you experience, the more you show that love to other people. We are to be assimilated into the culture of God’s kingdom as believers. His love should shape our ideas and our actions. This isn’t the emotional type of love that’s celebrated today. This is an agape love that seeks the betterment of others. It’s the highest form of love because it’s a choice we make to do something that is for the good of someone else even when it goes against our emotions. It’s the type of love that fundamentally changes the people who are exposed to it. Are you known by your love for others?

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A Life Of Love

Several years ago I was attending the Catalyst conference. Bob Goff was one of the speakers. When he finished his part, he gave each of us a copy of his book “Love Does”. It’s a collection of stories from his life where he decided to love people and say yes to their requests. It turns out when you look at each interaction as God opening a door for you, you’ll live an adventurous life. Because God loves people, Bob loves people. In this book he shares some incredible ways he has shown love to others and the impact it has had on them. I laughed out loud throughout the book. I also was brought to tears several times. Most importantly, it challenged me to dig deeper to find ways to show love.

If you’ve ever been to a wedding, you’ve probably heard 1 Corinthians 13 read. However, Paul didn’t write that chapter for married couples. He wrote it to believers on the importance of loving your neighbor in the context of spiritual gifts. Verse 1 reads, “If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love [for others growing out of God’s love for me], then I have become only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal [just an annoying distraction]” (AMP). God has given each of us spiritual gifts to edify and to love. Our world needs us to love them the way God loves them. Instead we’re guilty of seeing our differences and allowing those to divide us. We need to remember verse 5. It says, “It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured.” Loving others God’s way looks like this.

In John 13:34, Jesus says, “I am giving you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, so you too are to love one another.” The word for love that Jesus and Paul used in these is agape. This word isn’t referring to a love based out of emotion. It a love that does things for the benefit of another person while seeking the best for them regardless of you you feel. That’s the kind of love God calls you and I to. If we can’t or won’t love others extraordinarily with that kind of love, Paul said our lives will sound like a clanging cymbal causing a distraction rather than a sweet sound that brings music to people’s ears. Jesus didn’t ask us to live this way. He commanded it. There’s a difference there, and if we want to make a difference, it starts with living a life of love.

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If you’d like to read my thoughts on “Love Does”, I wrote about it here.

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