In 1 Kings 12, Solomon’s son Rehoboam became king. The people asked him to lighten the load that his father had put on them. He asked for time to talk to advisors and would answer. He went to his father’s advisors first. They agreed he should lighten the load so the people would be loyal. Then he went to his friends who were younger. They advised him to make things harder. He rejected the advice of the older people, and the nation revolted. The kingdom split in two and he only ruled a small portion of Israel.
We all need advice from time to time, even Solomon did. Who we listen to determines how life is going to go for us. Good advisors don’t just tell us what we want to hear. They give us wisdom and see things we can’t. The best advisors are people who are older than us because they’ve been down the road and know where the road bumps are. Ultimately, every decision we make is ours, and we have to bear the responsibility for those choices. So when you’re looking for advice, lay down your pride and get it from people who are wiser than you.
Here are some verses on getting advice.
1. Sensible people accept good advice. People who talk foolishly will come to ruin.
Proverbs 10:8 GNT
2. People who despise advice are asking for trouble; those who respect a command will succeed.
Proverbs 13:13 NLT
3. Without consultation and wise advice, plans are frustrated, But with many counselors they are established and succeed.
PROVERBS 15:22 AMP
4. Fools are headstrong and do what they like; wise people take advice.
Proverbs 12:15 MSG
5. Pride leads to conflict; those who take advice are wise.
Proverbs 13:10 NLT