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Revealing Everything

Is there anyone who knows everything about you? I mean EVERYTHING. I’m talking about your deepest, darkest secrets. These are the things you don’t let anyone know. Almost everyone has a face they put forward of what they want everyone else to see while hiding something from their past, a personality flaw or fear. We think that if they knew this about us they wouldn’t love us or like us so we keep it hidden. We all have a varying degree of how much of an open book we are. Some of it is based on who we are and some of it is controlled by fear. I once sat down with my wife to share things that were hidden even from her. The fear kept telling me if I tell her these things I’ve hidden she would divorce me. Yet afterwards, she loved me anyway and our love deepened because the barrier I had placed was removed.

In John 4, the disciples left Jesus sitting by a well while they went to buy food. A Samaritan woman came out to draw water from the well during that time. Jesus asked her for a drink. She was shocked that a Jew asked her for water and they began talking. Jesus began drawing her in with His questions and answers. He then revealed to her that He knew about her previous husbands, divorces and that she was living with a man whom she wasn’t married to. He then revealed that He was the Messiah. Verse 29 says she ran back into her village saying, “Come and see a man who told me everything I ever did! Could he possibly be the Messiah?” (NLY) Even though He knew her deepest, darkest secrets, He still loved her and her whole village came out to meet Him.

Psalm 139:1 says, “O Lord, you have examined my heart and know everything about me.” Think about that. He knows everything there is to know about you. Even the things you’ve hidden from everyone else, and He still loves you. He still died for you. He still desires to have a growing relationship with you. Romans 8:15 says, “So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, ‘Abba, Father.’” You don’t have to be afraid to confess everything to Him. He knows already and still offers you the living waters. He has adopted you as His child. Just like in my case, the more you confess, the more of the barriers in your relationship with Him, that you have placed there, get removed. Take some private time today to tell Him everything and draw closer to Him.

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Following Through

I’ve seen people go to social media to seek advice. They get a ton of comments and very few are the same. It’s one thing to go there for advice on what color to paint something and another thing to ask for life advice. I have a couple of people I’ll go to for that. These are people I trust to speak the truth and whose advice will line up with Scripture. Getting advice is only half of the solution. Following the advice and putting it into action is the other half. Sometimes it’s not easy to follow the advice of a trusted advisor. They can only advise. It’s up to me to enact. This is where a lot of people struggle. They’re good at getting advice, but putting it into action and following through when faced with consequences of change keep them where they are.

In the book of Esther, we find out that her parents died when she was young and she was raised by her cousin Mordecai. As she was going through the king’s beautification process, she kept seeking the advice of Mordecai who advised her not to reveal she was a Jew. Esther 2:20 says, “Esther had not revealed her family or her people [that is, her Jewish background], just as Mordecai had instructed her; for Esther did what Mordecai told her just as when she was under his care” (AMP) Later on she sought the advice of her handler on what she should take before the king when he selected her. Then when Haman threatened to kill the Jews, Esther took the advice of Mordecai again in order to save her people even though it could mean she would be put to death. She followed through with the advice of her trusted advisor and saved a nation.

Proverbs 20:18 says, “Get good advice and you will succeed; don’t go charging into battle without a plan” (GNT). Who are your trusted advisors? Who gives you godly advise that will help you succeed? Don’t fall in the trap of paralysis through analysis where you either get too much advice or you over analyze the advice you’ve been given. It wasn’t easy for Esther to take Mordecai’s advice to go before the king, but victory was won because she did. Your victory is on the other side of following God’s instructions for your life. It’s not always easy following His plan or even knowing it. That’s why you need someone who knows Him and His Word to be a trusted advisor in your life that will also hold you accountable to following through with the plan.

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The Qualities Of Salt

Most of us only use salt for a couple of things like seasoning our food. Did you know it has over 14,000 uses? It’s used in the manufacturing of computers, shoes and clothes. In the time of Christ, it was used as currency for the Roman soldiers. The word soldier comes from the Latin “sal dare” which means “to give salt to”. Your salary is derived from it to. When Jesus talked about sitting at the head of the table, he was referring to your position at the table in relation to the salt. It’s important that we understand the importance of salt, because it’s referred to in many ways in Scripture, and we typically only apply one or two uses to it. We can miss a lot of context that way.

In Matthew 5, Jesus was giving what we refer to as the “Sermon on the Mount”. In verse 13 He said, “You are the salt of the earth. But what good is salt if it has lost its flavor? Can you make it salty again? It will be thrown out and trampled underfoot as worthless” (NLT). You are the salt of the earth. You are valuable and should add value to the conversations you’re having. You bring the flavors of God to the people around you. If you’re not, your salt doesn’t have flavor and loses its value. Salt was mined in those days instead of being manufactured. It could have other minerals or impurities that caused it to lose its flavor or not have any. The same can be true of sin and how we live out our faith. Does your life make people want to know Jesus?

In Mark 9:50 Jesus used salt in reference to us again. He said, “Salt is good for seasoning. But if it loses its flavor, how do you make it salty again? You must have the qualities of salt among yourselves and live in peace with each other.” You must have the qualities of salt in your life and in the right balance. When you do, there are thousands of ways God can use you. He wants this world to know Him, and we are the main conduit for that. He wants us to preserve the peace between ourselves. He wants to create things through us too, but we have to make sure the impurities in our lives aren’t preventing us from those uses. Let us lay aside those impurities that hold us back, as Hebrews 12 tell us, and live out the qualities God lays out for us in His Word.

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Life Transformed

In Luke 7 Jesus was having dinner with some Pharisees when a woman with a bad reputation came in. She wept at Jesus’ feet and washed them with her hair. She then poured perfume on them. The people there were in disbelief at Jesus for allowing it. He then told them a story about debts being forgiven and asked who loved more. They replied the one with the greatest debt forgiven. He then looked at the woman and made the comparison to them. These men did nothing to show their debt had been forgiven and yet she hadn’t stopped. He was showing them that our life should change when our debt has been paid.

In Mark 5 Jesus and the disciples went across the Sea of Galilee to Gadarene. They were approached by a man filled with demons. People had tried to restrain him, but failed. When Jesus cast out the legion of demons, people came running and found the man in his right mind and dressed. The town asked Jesus to leave. As He did, this man wanted to come with Him, but Jesus asked him to stay. He knew that a changed life would be a great testimony to God to draw others in. He was right. This man went throughout that region as a changed person and many listened to him because they knew the before and saw the after.

Ephesians 4:23-24 says, “Your hearts and minds must be made completely new, and you must put on the new self, which is created in God’s likeness and reveals itself in the true life that is upright and holy” (GNT). Salvation begins a transformation in our hearts and mind that results in a changed life. This process is called sanctification. When Jesus forgives us and sets us free, it should be noticeable. Our love for Him because of the debt that was paid and the freedom we experience should be reflected in a transformed life. How has your life changed since you accepted Jesus? Let your transformed life be the starting point for telling others about Jesus.

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Fighting Insecurity

A few years ago I was sitting at a round table discussion with several other ministers in the Houston area. As they began the introductions, a little voice in my head said, “You don’t belong here!” A few more people introduced themselves and the voice continued, “You aren’t even in the same league as these people.” I sent my wife a text telling her I shouldn’t have come. More introduced themselves and what they were doing and the voice got louder as it got closer to my turn. I’m not an insecure person, but as I sat there, I was as insecure as I’d ever been thinking of how I’m less than everyone else at the table. I began to think of all my disqualifications and my inabilities. Then the voice of the Lord spoke to me reminding me who I am in Him, and I introduced myself.

In Exodus 3-4 Moses was at the burning bush talking to God when God asked him to go back to Egypt and free His people. As the Lord spoke, Moses’ insecurities began to rise in his mind. In verse 10, he replied to God, “I’m a nobody” (GNT). God continued telling him to go, but that voice in Moses’ head got louder. In Genesis 4:1 he told God, “No one will listen to me.” God continued. In verse 10 he reminded God of his limitations and inadequacies, but God insisted. Moses finally listened to God, went to Pharaoh and got the Israelites to be set free from 400 years of slavery. I don’t think the voice ever went away in his head, but over time he learned that it was God at work in him doing the things he did. Success depended on God’s provision rather than his ability.

That voice still speaks to me, and I bet you’ve heard it too reminding you of why you’re incapable of being used by God or accomplishing anything good for Him. Hebrews 13:21 says, “May the God of peace provide you with every good thing you need in order to do his will, and may he, through Jesus Christ, do in us what pleases him. And to Christ be the glory forever and ever! Amen.” The great news is that God will provide you with everything you need to accomplish His will. You just have to let your faith and trust in Him be louder than that voice. He is the God of peace when insecurities rise. He’s the God who supplies you with resources when you have none. It’s a good thing He calls some of the most seemingly unqualified people to do His work because they will give Him the glory for accomplishing it through them despite their inabilities. The next time you feel insecure because of that voice, remember this verse and simply pray, “I’ll do whatever you ask, Lord.”

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Look Straight Ahead

I’ve always been a fast driver. When I was in my early twenties I got tickets for speeding a lot. I would always go to the judge and ask if I could take defensive driving to get it dropped from my record. I used the same instructor for my classes each time. After about my third time in, he began to recognize me. On one of my trips to his class he pulled me aside and asked if he could give me some advice. I nodded and he said, “Quit looking at the car immediately in front of you. Train your eyes to look 30-45 seconds ahead of you and you won’t have to visit me so often.” I found that when I looked straight ahead down the road I noticed more things and was less distracted by things around me. I’m pretty sure that was the last time I took his course.

In Judges 13 we’re introduced to Samson’s parents. An angel visited his mom and said, “You will become pregnant and give birth to a son, and his hair must never be cut. For he will be dedicated to God as a Nazirite from birth. He will begin to rescue Israel from the Philistines” (NLT). Samson had a strict set of rules to live by and a purpose, but as he got older he began to take his eyes off of that purpose and dedication. He fell in love with a woman from the country he was supposed to liberate Israel from. He quit looking ahead, got distracted and was defeated by his enemy. However, on his last day he got his mindset right and killed more Philistines in one blow than all of them from the rest of his life combined.

Proverbs 4:25-27 says, “Look straight ahead, and fix your eyes on what lies before you. Mark out a straight path for your feet; stay on the safe path. Don’t get sidetracked; keep your feet from following evil.” Where are you looking? Are you being distracted by things around you that are keeping you from your purpose? It’s never too late to refocus or to return to the path God has laid out for you. Our enemy places distractions all around us to keep us short sighted and to get us off God’s path for our life. We must retrain our eyes to look straight ahead so we can focus on God’s plan. When we do, we will find that we’re less susceptible to things that will keep us from our God given destiny.

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Remain Faithful

After having gone through a difficult season, I asked my son how he was feeling and what was he thinking about it. He immediately said he didn’t understand why things happened as they did because we had fasted and prayed for a different outcome. He then said, “It makes me question if God really exists.” I began to explain how trials and tests can cause us to question His existence at times because we don’t understand. It can also cause us to question if our prayers are heard and other things as well. What matters is we push through our feeling of the moment and grab onto the reality of who He is. I reminded him of the time God supernaturally answered our prayers and times He’s specifically showed up. I let him know we all go through moments like that at times when we’re going through trials. It’s important to refocus on what God has done so we can remain faithful.

In Luke 22:31, Jesus said to Peter, “Simon, Simon! Listen! Satan has received permission to test all of you, to separate the good from the bad, as a farmer separates the wheat from the chaff” (GNT). What Peter didn’t know was his world was going to crumble that night. He would also deny knowing Jesus three times. Jesus then said, “But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith will not fail. And when you turn back to me, you must strengthen your brothers.” Jesus prayed for Peter, and He also intercedes for us in our moments of testing. Peter beat himself up pretty badly for failing in the test the way he did, but that wasn’t the end. He did turn back and remained faithful and led the Early Church. His failure in the test, like ours, is not the end.

James 1:12 says, “Happy are those who remain faithful under trials, because when they succeed in passing such a test, they will receive as their reward the life which God has promised to those who love him.” Everyone will face tests because Satan wants to sift us and cause us to doubt our faith making us ineffective. He wants us to return to our old life, but Jesus is praying for you that your faith won’t fail. He’s waiting to restore you and strengthen you. It’s in times of testing we find out where we truly stand. Sometimes we pass with flying colors and other times we’re left questioning everything. It’s good to keep a journal of what all God has done so you can remind yourself of the faithfulness of God in those moments. When we remain faithful and make it through the trial, God will give us more of His abundant life He promised us and we will receive the crown of life.

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Affirmation From God

When I’m working with a leader and teaching them how to coach an employee, I tell them that the last step is the most important. After creating a collaborative action plan for future behaviors, they must end with an affirmation of belief in the employee. It’s critical for the leader to say, “I know you can make this change and it will change your results.” When we haven’t met expectations or have fallen short in an area repeatedly, our negative self talk can keep us in a cycle of failure. Affirmations of belief from a superior resonate in a person and can replace that self talk. There’s something to having someone believe in you that encourages you and gives you the will to face a battle you’ve lost before.

In Judges 6, israel was being bullied by the Midianites. The Israelites would often hide from them in caves and other places where they wouldn’t be seen. The Midianites would destroy their crops, take their livestock and make life unbearable for the Israelites. That’s when we’re introduced to Gideon. He had managed to grow some grain without them destroying it and was hiding while threshing it. Suddenly God visited him in the form of an angel and spoke to him. He said, “The Lord is with you, brave and mighty man!” (GNT) Gideon didn’t see himself that way in the moment and asked why God hadn’t delivered them. That’s when God told him to go in the strength he had to deliver Israel. God believed in Gideon and affirmed something in him that he didn’t see in himself. He went on to defeat the Midianite army and become the leader of Israel.

Galatians 1:21-22 says, “God affirms us, making us a sure thing in Christ, putting his Yes within us. By his Spirit he has stamped us with his eternal pledge—a sure beginning of what he is destined to complete” (MSG). God has put His Spirit in you as a believer affirming your calling and giving you strength to accomplish His will for your life. He sees you as a mighty warrior who is able to defeat the thing standing in your way. He’s given you strength to complete what you haven’t been able to do on your own. He calls out of us abilities and strengths we didn’t know we had. We access those by stepping onto the battlefield in faith the way Gideon did. When God calls you to something, He equips you and strengthens you when you step out in faith. Gideon had to step onto the battlefield with 300 men to face 130,000. He didn’t feel qualified and he didn’t feel prepared, but when he stepped out in faith, God showed up. The same is true for us. God affirms who we are in Christ and gives us strength in our weaknesses.

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Hidden Motives

When I was in high school, my dad told me that chewing gum could be a sin. That was a shocking thing to hear, and I doubted it, so I asked him where that was in Scripture. I figured he would point to Leviticus or something, but he went to James 4:7 which says that it’s sin to know to do right and then to choose not to do it. Since chewing gum was against school rules, I would be in willful rebellion knowing the rule and choosing not to obey it. That day my concept of sin changed. I had associated sin with an action of doing something that was a “thou shalt not.” My dad was teaching me that sin is often a matter of the hearts and my motivation. Man looks on the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart.

In Numbers 22, we read the story of Balaam and his donkey riding through town. I’ve always kind of thought positively about him despite this story, but everywhere he’s mentioned in the Bible refers to him negatively. He had refused to curse Israel no matter what. They kept trying to bride him to go with them to do it, but he refused. He then told them to stay one more night to see if God would change his mind. That’s when God told him he could go with them. The next morning Balaam saddled his own donkey to go with them indicating his desire and eagerness to go with them. Verse 22 says that God got angry at Balaam because his motives were wrong in going. That’s when the donkey began to act crazy and finally spoke to him.

1 Thessalonians 2:4 says, “For we speak as messengers approved by God to be entrusted with the Good News. Our purpose is to please God, not people. He alone examines the motives of our hearts” (NLT). You and I are able to do the right things for the wrong reasons. God looks at our heart though. We might be able to fool others, but we can’t fool God. What has God asked you to do, but you’re hesitating or choosing to do something different? What have you been doing with the wrong motivation or desire in your heart? We have to be careful that we don’t become like Balaam or Jonah who said and did the right thing, but had improper motives that were hidden. God sees our heart and will use whatever He needs to in order to correct the sin hidden in our lives, including a donkey or giant fish.

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Every Day Gifts

One day as I was walking back to my car from dropping off my son at school, I heard someone calling my name. I looked over to see a friend of mine who was standing with a man I didn’t know. As I walked over, I felt the Holy Spirit say, “He needs to be encouraged.” After introductions, I began to hear the prompting of the Holy Spirit to bring up certain things. I began saying everything I was hearing to him, and he began to cry. I kept sharing these words of encouragement as long as the Holy Spirit led me. He then said, “I know we don’t know each other, but can we hug? You have no idea how much I needed to hear all that today.” After a bear hug, I told him that God sees his struggles and brought me over to tell him all those things. We’ve been friends since that moment.

When we think of spiritual gifts, we tend to think of the “big” ones listed in 1 Corinthians 12 like prophesy, words of wisdom, healing, performing miracles, discernment and interpreting tongues. Those can seem like wonderful gifts to have, but can also feel overwhelming to think about using. These gifts can be used anywhere, but are primarily seen in the church. However, there’s another set of spiritual gifts in Romans 12:6-9 that I see as every day gifts you can use at work, home, sporting events or anywhere you go. These gifts are serving, teaching, encouragement, giving, leadership and kindness. The gifts are for the people you come in contact with. If you look around, you’ve been perfectly situated to use these every day gifts God has given you. Which of them has God given you?

1 Corinthians 12:7 says, “A spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each other” (NLT). It may not feel like it, but you have spiritual gifts given to you by God. It’s time to unwrap them, hone them and use them. If you’re unfamiliar with what your gifts are, you can take a spiritual gifts assessment and it will show you. The transformation of the Church going from a cruise ship to a battleship begins with the believers using their gifts outside the church building. We have been equipped to change lives, to make a difference in our communities and to restore people to God. He is ready to use the gifts you’ve been given so we must stir them up, listen for the prompting of the Holy Spirit and use them in love wherever we go each day. Take some time today to read all of 1 Corinthians 12 and let it challenge you to mobilize and use your spiritual gifts to grow the Kingdom of God.

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