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The Comparison Game

Unfortunately one of the things I instinctively do when I walk into a room is to stack rank myself. I start trying to figure out the hierarchy of the people so I know my place and what’s expected of me. I once worked for a company whose culture was built on comparison. They pitted employee against employee, store against store, district against district and region against region. It may have been good for sales, but not for relationships. We were constantly looking down on others, talking trash and looking for ways to beat them. They preached unity from the top, but in the trenches is was every person for themselves. There were always reports going out with stack ranking. How you compared with others was clearly show. In black and white every day.

In the Early Church, there was a similar problem. People were comparing themselves to other Christians and churches compared themselves against other churches. It mattered who baptized you or who led you to Jesus in their eyes. When Paul got wind of it, he tried to put a stop to it. In 1 Corinthians 3:4 he addressed them, “When one of you says, ‘I am a follower of Paul,’ and another says, ‘I follow Apollos,’ aren’t you acting just like people of the world?” (NLT) He reminded them that he and Apollos were just men. To compare themselves to each other by who they followed was foolish because they were just people. It’s Jesus that we should be following.

In order to set them straight, a few verses later he wrote, “The one who plants and the one who waters work together with the same purpose. And both will be rewarded for their own hard work.” We’re not in competition with one another. We’re co-laborers, not competitors. Yet we find ourselves in the same battles today that the Early Church did. We think our denomination is better than yours. Our pastor is better. I’m better. It’s all comparison against a people who are merely servants of God. When we compare ourselves against Him, it’s obvious we fall short. That’s why we go against others. It’s time we quit the comparison game and started working together as one body. Paul reminded us here that while we have different roles, it’s ultimately God who blesses our work and causes seeds to grow giving a harvest.

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One Body. One Mission.

What do you think of other church denominations other than yours? What do you think about the Baptists? The Methodists? The Presbyterians? The Vineyard Church? The Assemblies Of God? The non-denominational churches? Do you have positive thoughts about them? Do you see them as the competition? Do you see them as having incorrect doctrine? The truth is we all feel something when we see other churches, and it’s related to how you were brought up to think.

One of the biggest things that stood out to me when I first started attending the church I go to was that each week the pastor would pray before his sermon. In that prayer he would say, “Lord, I bless the Methodist church down the road meeting this morning. I pray for Pastor Johnson at the baptist church this morning. Speak through him. I pray over our Anglican brothers and sisters meeting this morning. Holy Spirit, meet with your body of believers this morning.” Each week, he would call out different pastors and churches in the area and bless them.

God uses those prayers to remind me that we are all One Body and co-laborers together. Each of us has a part to play in the Body. We are not in competition with each other, but in cooperation in the Great Co-Mission. Paul put it this way in 1 Corinthians 12:25, “The way God designed our bodies is a model for understanding our lives together as a church: every part dependent on every other part” (MSG). God’s desire, and design, is that we learn to work together and to become depend on each other.

We are not to be in competition with each other or against each other. Remember, if a house is divided, it can’t stand. We need to look at our commonalities and give a 100% on building relationships around those things. I’ve been on staff at a church that had 50 denominations represented in the audience with people from over 50 different nations. We worked and worshiped together as one. This is God’s design for His Body, and it starts with us individually focusing the things that unite us rather than what separates us.

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Acting In Love


I work in the retail industry, which means I work with the public. There are times that the customer has done something with their purchase which voids the warranty. When they come in, they want to make an exchange under the warranty. Many times, I’ve caught reps saying, “Sorry. That’s just our policy.” I’ve found that using that phrase usually infuriates people. The rep usually then tries to educate the customer on our policy so they understand why we can’t do it.

I’ve spent some time working with them to help change their approach. I tell them, “Customers don’t care about policy or what you can’t do. They need compassion and empathy along with what you can do.” I explain that knowledge is not enough when it comes to something near and dear to someone. Knowledge does nothing to correct their problem. Even if we can’t do anything for them, showing some empathy will to a lot farther. 

In the days of the Early Church, there were many questions about what Christians could and could not do. Many arguments broke out that created divisions. People argued their side and tried to make each other more knowledgeable so they would change their ways. Paul responded in Corinthians 8:1, “Yes, we know that “we all have knowledge” about this issue. But while knowledge makes us feel important, it is love that strengthens the church” (NLT). It seemed everyone had an idea or an opinion, but few had love for each other.

Even today, many of us have disagreements and try to prove each other wrong. All that does is puff us up as an individual. God’s desire is that you and I begin to act in love and empathy in order to strengthen the Church. We can’t forget that we are one body. We may not see eye to eye on everything, but we can always choose to act in love. We are co-laborers in Christ, not competitors. It’s time we stopped trying to make the foot a hand or a hand an eye. Let’s act in love towards one another, strengthen each other and learn to work together. 

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