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Guard Yourself

There’s a story that the writer of Proverbs shares with his son that we all should be aware of. In verse 6, he says he was looking out his window over the city and saw a naive man walking down the street. He crossed the street near an immoral woman’s house and began to linger a bit. He knew she was immoral and chose to walk by there anyway. She came out, approached him and threw her arms around him. She said something religious to throw him off. She then said she had been looking for him and spoke seductively to him wooing him inside. He followed her like a bird into a snare not knowing it would cost him his life. The writer is warning us how temptation works and is begging us to guard our hearts so we don’t follow in the same steps as this naive man.

In Ephesians 6, Paul reminds us that we must be strong in the Lord and in His might so we can stand up to the temptations of the devil who seeks to steal, kill and destroy. He reminds us to put on God’s armor to help protect us. Verse 14 says, “Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness” (NLT). This body armor, or breastplate of righteousness, was meant to guard the heart which is the seat of our emotions and representative of our spiritual life. It is meant to shield us from the attacks and temptations from the enemy that would pierce us and lead us down the road the naive man went down. It’s accompanied by the belt of truth because we must know God’s truth in order to push back against the enemy’s lies the way Jesus did. Putting these on requires us to know the Word and to make choice’s consistent with our faith.

In Romans 13, Paul tells us we must live differently than the people of the world. We must live as people of the light rather than of darkness. In verse 14 he says, “Instead, clothe yourself with the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. And don’t let yourself think about ways to indulge your evil desires.” We must put on the righteousness provided by Jesus and make decisions in our thinking that reflect His way for our life. Otherwise we will be caught in the enemy’s web of deceit drawing us away from God’s righteousness. He causes us to think about sin and it’s pleasures rather than the end result. Instead of playing around with it and walking near the street of the thing that tempts you, guard your heart and stay away. Don’t be like the naive man who went near the temptation. Put on truth and righteousness. Don’t entertain thoughts of temptation. Just like the woman luring the man in, our enemy is trying to lure us away from living as people of the light. Guard yourself with the belt of truth and the breastplate of righteousness.

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The Paths Of God

Life is about movement and growth. There are always several paths we can take. Some of us go with our feelings to decide which to take. Some think logically while others pray about it. Knowing which path to take is important. That’s why Proverbs 3:5-6 says that when we trust in and acknowledge the Lord He will direct our paths. Psalm 119:105 says that God’s Word is lamp for our feet and a light to our path. God wants us to take us down the paths He has for us. His paths are right and good, but not always easy. We can continue to trust Him when the path has ups and downs because He has our best interest at heart. He’s concerned about our destination more than our comfort. As you look at the path ahead of you, seek His will and wisdom to guide you along the way.

Here are some Bible verses on the paths God has for you.

1. All the paths of the Lord are lovingkindness and goodness and truth and faithfulness To those who keep His covenant and His testimonies.

Psalms 25:10 AMP

2. You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.

Psalm 16:11 ESV

3. This is what the Lord says— your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: “I am the Lord your God, who teaches you what is good for you and leads you along the paths you should follow.

Isaiah 48:17 NLT

4. He makes my feet like hinds’ feet [able to stand firmly and tread safely on paths of testing and trouble]; He sets me [securely] upon my high places.

Psalms 18:33 AMP

5. He renews my strength. He guides me along right paths, bringing honor to his name.

Psalms 23:3 NLT

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Combating Internal Lies

When you’re going through a difficult season or through a hard time, you start seeking out sympathy. One of the things you’re going to hear in your mind is, “You don’t deserve this. Why is God mad at you?” Another thing you will hear is, “No one has it as badly as you do. No one will understand what you’re going through.” I know because I’ve heard them. These are lies to get you to be upset at God, to get mad at others and to isolate you. If you’re mad at God, you won’t pray and a root of bitterness can spring up. If you’re mad at others, you won’t accept help from them. If you’re isolated, you’re easy prey for your enemy who roams like a lion seeking to devour you.

To combat the first lie, I use Romans 8:28 as a promise to hold onto. I believe that no matter how bad things get, God can always work it out for my good. To combat the second lie, I look for people who had it worse than I did. There is always someone else who is having a more difficult time than you. I’ve also come to realize that while my circumstance are unique, it doesn’t disqualify anyone from understanding and offering empathy. The pain and stages of grief are where others can connect to help me from getting isolated. I also keep at least one friend nearby who knows that during difficult seasons I may push people away, but really I want and need them close by. They know I need encouragement and to be refocused during those times.

Hebrews 12:3 is a great Scripture to help refocus in difficult times. It says, “So consider carefully how Jesus faced such intense opposition from sinners who opposed their own souls, so that you won’t become worn down and cave in under life’s pressures” (TPT). Jesus, who is our intercessor, has been through worse things and attacks than anyone. The verse before this one reminds us that He endured all that for the joy set before Him knowing what good was going to come from it. Now He is able to be empathetic and to pray specifically for you to the Father. You are never alone in your struggles. You are never left without an intercessor who is praying for you. Don’t believe the lies you hear in your mind. Read the Word of God and stand on His promises. It may not feel like it, and you may not be able to see it, but He is working things out for your good.

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Choose Wise Words

Have you ever said the first thing that came to your mind and then later regretted it? Once words leave our mouth, we can never get them back. I’ve had other times where I’ve thought long and hard about what to say and how to say it only to still have them take it the wrong way. It’s even worse with texts because there’s no tone. The reader can insert their own tone or put the emphasis on whichever word they want. As a communications trainer, I’ve shown people how changing what word you put the emphasis on can change the whole meaning of a sentence. I’ve learned though that you can control what and how you say something, but you can’t control how they receive it. Even knowing that, it’s still important to find the right words, the right tone and the right body language because how and what you say has the power to heal relationships and people as well.

In Joshua 22, we read the story of where the land was conquered and Joshua released the three tribes who wanted land east of the Jordan from their obligation. Before they crossed the Jordan, they built a large altar that was similar to what the other tribes used to worship God. When someone saw it, they spread word and got all the other tribes up in arms and they showed up to fight the three tribes. They assumed they knew what was in their hearts and assumed it was evil so they confronted them with an army threatening to destroy them. Thankfully they spoke to them first and they explained they were looking generations ahead and wanted to make sure future generations knew they were part of the family. It wasn’t to defy God or even to burn sacrifices on. It was simply a reminder. The other tribes listened to their words and were satisfied. They made a covenant there and allowed the altar to stand. It’s a reminder to us how things can be interpreted and how important our words can be.

Proverbs 12:18 says, “Thoughtless words can wound as deeply as any sword, but wisely spoken words can heal” (GNT). Sometimes we say things purposely to hurt someone, but other times, it’s the thoughtless ones that really sting. You can probably think of a time you’ve been wounded by someone’s words. When you’re offended or are looking for offense, you tend to think that what someone else said was meant to hurt you. You add tone, emphasis and intent where it wasn’t intended. Did you know that Scripturally it’s your responsibility to go to them and let them know they’ve offended you privately (Matthew 18:15)? You can either use your words to tear them down back or bring healing to the relationship. I’ve seen this done Scripturally where someone came to me and said, “When you said this, I took it as that and it hurt me.” In those moments, I’ve thought back to the situation and most times they were thoughtless words that didn’t mean to harm, but they did. Choose your words wisely and choose to speak healing.

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Life’s Seasons

Seasons change. We seem to always be looking for the next season. Whatever season we’re in, we seem to complain about it. We complain about the heat of summer, the cold of winter, the rain in spring and the shorter days of fall. We’re always wanting out of the season we’re in. However, it’s the different seasons that create the lifecycle of growth and production. Without winter the ground couldn’t rest. Without spring seeds wouldn’t spout. Without summer, plants wouldn’t grow. Without Fall we wouldn’t see a harvest. Our lives experience these same cycles and seasons. Just like the regular seasons, we complain and look for the next one.

The people in the Bible were in different seasons and they taught us what to do in each one. In a season of temptation, Jesus quoted scriptures. In a season of being on the run from Saul, David found strength in the word of God. In a season of battles Joshua trusted the word of the Lord. In a season of lamenting Jeremiah found hope in the faithfulness of God. In a season of barrenness Abraham trusted the promise. In a season of persecution, the Early Church counted it joy to suffer as they looked forward to the return of Jesus. Each season passed for these men and women of old, but while they were in them, they held onto God’s Word.

Isaiah 40:8 reminds us, “The grass withers and the flowers fade, but the word of our God stands forever” (NLT). I don’t know what season you’re in right now. It may look like everything in your life is fading away. It’s in these moments, you must trust in God’s Word. Everything will change except it. His Word is our solid ground in a world of shifting sand. It is the stability we need, the shelter we can hide in, the water we can drink from and the firm foundation to build our life on. Though the storms come, our life can be anchored to hope knowing it will last forever. Instead of complaining about the season you’re in, seek out what God is trying to do in your life during it. Hold fast to the promises you find knowing He is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. What He’s done in His Word, He can do today, and will do forever no matter what season you’re in.

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Becoming Resilient

Resilience is a person’s ability to withstand difficulties or to be able to bounce back from them. We all have different levels of resilience. In 1956, Jim Elliot had been a missionary to Ecuador for three years. He had been wanting to reach a tribe who was known for their hostility towards outsiders. He felt in his heart that God had called him to reach this tribe so he and some others flew over to meet them. When he didn’t radio back that evening, his wife Elisabeth had another friend fly over the area. Her worst fear was confirmed. The men were killed. However, Elisabeth didn’t return home. She stayed and continued to try to reach this tribe. Within two years the whole tribe accepted Jesus and Jim’s family was living in the village.

In Genesis 39: we’re introduced to Joseph. He was Jacob’s favorite son out of twelve. He had a couple dreams where his brothers and his parents bowed down to him. It wasn’t long after that his brothers beat him up, threw him in a cistern and sold him as a slave. He worked in an Egyptian’s house until he was falsely accused and thrown in prison. After years of being down there, two men who served Pharaoh joined him. They had dreams as well. He interpreted them and they came true, but he was soon forgotten. In over a decade of being in slavery and prison, we don’t hear Joseph complain. Instead, we see his resilience knowing his dream was from God. It wasn’t long after that when he interpreted Pharaoh’s dream and saved his family while seeing his dream come to pass.

Psalm 46:1 says, “God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble” (NLT). It goes on to say that we don’t have to fear calamities, earthquakes, floods and other disasters. We can be resilient through terrible times knowing that God is in control. To be resilient is to surrender what control you think you have to him. Ultimately His way will prevail. Elisabeth and Joseph trusted God’s voice and plan when their expectations of it didn’t happen. Their resilience helped them to stay the course, believe in their dream and trust God no matter what their circumstances showed. He was their refuge and strength when they needed Him in times of trouble. Because they surrendered their expectations of what things should look like, they were rewarded with the fulfillment of the dreams God placed in them. What do you need to surrender to God so you can find refuge and withstand things not appearing to go your way?

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God’s Delight

In the Bible, the word “Delight” comes from either a word that means “to bend down towards” or a word that means “to take pleasure in.” On the first one, I picture a parent bending down , listening to a child so they know they’re seen and heard. On the second one, I picture a parent beaming with pride over their kid. Did you know God delights in you both of these ways? I don’t know how you picture God in your relationship with Him, but this is what it should look like. He’s not holding a grudge against you or withholding good things from you because of your past. He’s also not up there waiting for you to mess up so He can punish you. He’s a good Father who loves you, bends down toward you when you’re talking to Him and delights in you because you’re His child. Smile. God loves you.

Here are some Bible verses showing God delights in you:

1. For the Lord delights in his people; he crowns the humble with victory.

Psalms 149:4 NLT

2. The steps of a [good and righteous] man are directed and established by the Lord, And He delights in his way [and blesses his path].

Psalms 37:23 AMP

3. He takes no pleasure in the strength of a horse or in human might. No, the Lord’s delight is in those who fear him, those who put their hope in his unfailing love.

Psalms 147:10-11 NLT

4. He brought me out into a broad place; He rescued me because He was pleased with me and delighted in me.

Psalms 18:19 AMP

5. For the Lord your God is living among you. He is a mighty savior. He will take delight in you with gladness. With his love, he will calm all your fears. He will rejoice over you with joyful songs.

Zephaniah 3:17 NLT

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A Forward Looking Perspective

Unfortunately, one of the promises Jesus gave us was written in John 16:33. He said that we would have trouble in this world. Yet somehow we always seemed surprised when we encounter troubles and set backs. I’m one of the biggest offenders. I like things to happen on schedule, the way I planned them, with no disruptions or issues. When things happen that mess up my plans, or I run into a period when nothing seems to go right, I lose my calm demeanor. I complain, and I let people and God know I’m not happy. My focus switches from long term to immediate, and in doing that, I lose my eternal perspective as well. In those times, I allow my troubles to block my view of God.

Consider Abraham. Hebrews 11:8 reminds us that God called him to leave his home where he had grown up and where his family was. God didn’t even tell him where he was going. He just said that He would show it to him. He and his wife Sarah lived in the land God promised him as a foreigner all his life. There was even a famine in the land that God took him to which forced him to leave for a period. Verse 10 says, “Abraham was confidently looking forward to a city with eternal foundations, a city designed and built by God” (NLT). Even when things didn’t happen the way he thought they should or in his timing, he kept looking past his troubles to God’s promises.

In 2 Corinthians 4, Paul starts out by saying they were pressed on every side by troubles, but they were not crushed. He continues talking about how constant his troubles are and that he keeps going and pushing forward. Then in the final verse of the chapter he writes, “So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.” He is teaching us to keep an eternal perspective by looking past our current situation. We must rely on God’s promises when things are going wrong. Our faith in what God says should give us the strength to persist even in times of trouble. Don’t allow today’s issues cause you to lose sight of tomorrow’s fulfilled promises.

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The Best Perspective

I watch all kinds of sports on TV from American football to NASCAR racing. There are times I yell at the players or drivers from my couch because the quarterback missed seeing an open receiver or a driver didn’t take the inside lane on turn 3. I always wonder how they didn’t see it, but then I remember the cameras they’re broadcasting the sport from are usually up high looking down. It’s hard to see a receiver down field when you have a 300 man in your face chasing you down or when you’re traveling 200 mph in a field of over 40 cars. I’ve noticed that often coordinators will be sitting in the press boxes up high and spotters will be on the roof so they can get a better perspective of what’s going on. The directions given by these coaches may not make sense on the ground, but if they’ll trust their coach who has perspective, they’ll succeed.

In Acts 16, Paul and Silas were on their second missionary journey preaching the Good News to people who had never heard if, planting churches and checking with churches they already planted. In the middle of this journey, verse 6 says, “Next Paul and Silas traveled through the area of Phrygia and Galatia, because the Holy Spirit had prevented them from preaching the word in the province of Asia at that time” (NLT). They tried to go somewhere else to preach, but were also prevented. It must have seemed strange to them that God prevented them from doing what He called them to, but then Paul had a dream of a man in Macedonia asking him to come. God opened that door and they planted churches in Philippi, Corinth and Thessalonica. These churches became important to the growth of the Church in that area and we received five letters from Paul in the New Testament to them teaching us how to live.

Psalm 32:8 says, “The Lord says, ‘I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you.’” The thing about guides and advisers is that we can listen to them, but then have the choice of whether or not we follow their advice. Paul didn’t understand why God prevented him from going to where he planned, but he trusted God’s guidance and advice. The things God asks us to do or even tries to prevent us from doing may not make sense in the moment, but we must remember He has a better perspective of our life. He can see what’s down the road and not just what’s right in front of us. If God is saying, “No,” right now, trust Him. It may not coincide with your plans or even your expectations of what He’s called you to in the moment. Trust the One who watches over you. He had the best pathway for your life.

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Covering Sin Up

It’s amazing to me how human nature will allow us to do something wrong, then make us think we can cover it up. In the early 2000’s, just down the road from me, Enron was supposedly the seventh largest and wealthiest company in the U.S. it turns out they had built a house of cards with deceptive business practices. They were doing things illegally and then covering it up trying to make it look like everything was on the up and up. Once all the covering up was exposed, the house of cards came tumbling down. In one final attempt to cover things up, shredder trucks arrived as the news broke. They began trying to shred all the evidence to cover up as much as possible. The business laws changed that day.

In Genesis 3, we read the story of Adam and Eve who were placed in the Garden of Eden. They were given the most beautiful place on earth to live in the most perfect environment. Each evening they even walked with God, yet even in there they had the temptation to do something wrong. The devil took their eyes off of all God had given them and had them focus on what they couldn’t have. Eve took from the tree and ate the forbidden fruit. She then gave some to her husband Adam. Immediately their eyes were opened to see that they were naked. They tried to cover themselves and their sin with fig leaves. Instead of confessing their sin, they tried to cover it up and were banished from the garden.

Proverbs 28:13 says, “People who conceal their sins will not prosper, but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy” (NLT). Sin always tries to hide in the life of a believer. It wants to be done in secret and covered up. However, we can’t prosper by covering our sins ourselves. Only the blood of Jesus can cover our sins and make us whole. We must confess them to God, turn from them too, and then we will receive God’s mercy and grace. Where are the fig leaves in your life? What are you trying to conceal instead of being willing to confess? God is extending mercy toward you today if you will quit trying to cover it yourself and allow Him to forgive you. It’s time to put the fig leaves down and to quit covering up sin.

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