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Vertical Value

When I was a kid I heard the parable of the rich rancher. He had started with nothing, but worked hard, bought land and became the richest person around. He had so many acres and livestock that there wasn’t very much that he didn’t own in the county. One day a childhood friend came to visit the rancher. He was excited to show off how much he had acquired and built through the years. They drove all through the land, past fences and through gates stopping along the way. When they got back to the ranch house, the rancher bragged to his friend, “Look around. I own everything you see!” Just then the setting sun caught the friend’s eye. He said, “Do you own that too?” In that moment, the rancher gazed upward and realized that he had built a life on basing his value horizontally comparing himself with others rather than vertically finding his worth in God.

In 1 Samuel 17 David faced Goliath. All the descriptions of Goliath show that Israel measured his worth by his height, his armor and his fighting record. When they compared theirselves to him, they ran in fear. However, when David arrived, he knew who he was in God’s eyes. He didn’t measure his worth in being a shepherd or the youngest in his family, so he was t afraid of Goliath. In fact, he got a righteous anger in him at Goliath for defying God and his fellow countrymen for being afraid and doing nothing. His own brothers taunted him because of his age, his occupation and his inexperience, but David wasn’t phased. He spoke to Goliath, “You come to me with sword, spear, and javelin, but I come to you in the name of the LORD of Heaven’s Armies—the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied” (NLT). He didn’t compare himself to Goliath, but rather he compared Goliath to God and understood victory was coming.

In Galatians 6:4 Paul reminds us to not fall into the same trap of comparison that so many have fallen into. He wrote, “Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else.” When God created you, He had very specific things in. Ind for you to do. You don’t need to compare your calling and work with others. Are you being faithful where God has planted you and doing what He’s asked of you? If so, you are being successful in God’s eyes. Quit trying to prove yourself to others, gain their approval and comparing what God asked you to do with what He’s called them to do. When you’ve shown faithfulness in the little things, He will give you more. The next time the sun catches your eye, let it remind you to look upwards rather than at others.

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The Comparison Trap

Comparing ourselves to one another is something we all do. It’s especially dangerous when we do it as Christians though. We say, “Ifi didn’t have to go through the things I went through, I would be as close to God as they are.if I had their kind of time, I would pray more. If I had their kind of money, I would give extravagantly.” The list goes on, but the comparison trap begins with the word “if”. It’s the biggest little word out there. When we use it to compare ourselves, what we’re really doing is creating an excuse for not doing something we should be doing now.

When we find ourselves falling into this trap, it’s important to ask ourselves some questions to keep ourselves in check. We need to ask, “What’s my motivation for saying that? What’s driving this statement? What am I doing in this area right now with what I have?” In most cases, were not really doing much in that area, if anything at all. We’re delaying following a spiritual discipline we don’t care to follow, by comparing ourselves to others who only do it because they have what we don’t. The problem is that Jesus said in Luke 16:10, “If you are faithful in little things, you will be faithful in large ones” (NLT).

There’s a reason why God said in Zachariah 4:10, “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” If you don’t do it when you have a little, you won’t do it when you have a lot. It’s when we’re faithful in the small beginnings that God will know we will be faithful in larger things. So whatever comparison trap you find yourself in, break the lie by calling it out. Then start doing whatever it is with what you have right now. You will stop the excuse making and turn on the fountain of blessings from God by following what He asks you to do.

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