Right Words at the Right Time


I believe in the power of words and in paying it forward. I was excited to see a news story out of North Carolina that combined the two. A family went to dinner at a pizza restaurant and their child with special needs started to get rowdy. People started looking and I’m sure it was embarrassing for the parents. A waitress walked over with tears in her eyes and said, “Another customer has paid for your dinner and wanted me to give you this note.” It read, “God only gives special children to special people.”

At a moment when these parents were upset themselves over the situation they couldn’t control, someone else saw through the temporary and gave them hope through words. Proverbs 25:11 in the Message says, “The right word at the right time is like a custom-made piece of jewelry.” The customer who sent over the note had no idea that this family needed those words at that moment like they did. The mom said, “Little did he know what struggles we had been facing lately and this was surely needed at that moment.”

The mom also said that this one gesture outweighed all the other rude and negative comments they face every day. Proverbs 18:21 says that the power of life and death are in the tongue. Each one of us wields a powerful weapon. How we choose to use it matters. The easy thing in this situation is to roll your eyes and ask why they brought the child into a public restaurant in the first place. I’m sure most of the patrons in that restaurant fit into that category. Thank God for one person who had the boldness to not only say the right words at the right time, but purchased their meal too.

That’s where paying it forward comes into play. I believe paying it forward is scriptural. Most of us had to memorize the Golden Rule as a child: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. There probably isn’t anyone reading this who wouldn’t love to be at dinner and to have the server come over and say, “Someone has paid for your meal.” We would love that, but have we done it for someone else? The Golden Rule doesn’t say, “Do unto others as they have done unto you.”

You may not be in a position to buy someone’s meal, but you are in a position to speak life into someone. If you see someone having a difficult day, give them an encouraging word. If you see someone struggling where you’ve been, offer a helping hand and words of advice. A saying I heard a while back still rings true. It says, “When you share in someone’s sadness, sorrow is divided. When you share in their joy, it is multiplied.” We all have days where we would love to have our emotional load divided with someone. Why not pay that forward today and help someone else out?

If you’d like to read the article I’m referencing, click here.


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8 responses to “Right Words at the Right Time

  1. Alonso Pedroza

    Actions like these shows me there is great people left in the world. The media just focuses on the negatives, more than the positives. Simple words, complements, and signs of love could make someone’s day go from horrible to amazing!
    At my Leadership conference they told us a story; there was this guy that was gathering all of his things because he was going to kill himself. He brought in boxes of books into his house. As he was opening the door he was caring the box of books and one of the book’s fell out of the box. There was a kid down the street that saw him struggling and he decided to help him out. So he ran to pick up the book for the guy and put it in the box. As he put it in the box he told the guy to have a great day. Those words form the teenager helped the guy change his mind about killing himself.
    We truly don’t know the effects from showing love and caring for others. We usually hear stories about the ones that did not get any love or care for on he news.
    I was on Twitter yesterday and I found a really great quote on a page called God’s Love. It stated, “I may not be perfect but Jesus says I am to die for.”

    • Wow! Thanks for sharing. Great story abd great quote. We are all worth dying for. It’s easy to forget that when everything else in this world says otherwise. I appreciate you and your contribution to this site, Alonso.

  2. I saw this article, thanks for sharing on your blog. This world needs more positive media attention. God bless.

  3. I love that story, Chris. My sister has a severely autistic son and so many people have made rude comments to her in public because he would act up.
    Good post!

    • I can’t understand how people can do that. It’s unthinkable. I want to do more than be understanding of their situation. I want to be like the person in this story who makes a difference in someone’s life no matter how small the act of kindness is.

  4. Reblogged this on God, Autism, and Me and commented:
    This is the “good deed” I referred in Autism In The Headlines: part one. I really enjoy this blog and I enjoyed this story. Some people preach. Other’s teach by example. Enjoy!

  5. I like the idea of writing a note of encouragement on their bill. We occasionally pay for someone’s meal. It’s fun to sneak out before they’re told. We ask the waitress to tell them that their meal is on Jesus. This is better!


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